EPISODE 38: I Always Get What I Want. But At What Cost?
You can spend your entire life learning how to get what you want and never learn how to be in relationship with it.
The dream business. The dream partner. The money. The status. The recognition. The freedom.
But what happens when you finally get everything you thought you wanted and realize you're still not fulfilled?
In this episode, I'm unpacking something I've been observing in business, leadership, relationships, and the collective as we approach the 2027 Human Design shift.
There's a massive difference between manipulating someone into giving you what you want and activating someone into recognizing their own power.
I believe that difference is going to become increasingly important.
We're talking about the ego that helped you build your empire, the identity you've spent years protecting, and why the very behaviors that made you successful might now be standing between you and the connection, fulfillment, and peace you're actually craving.
Inside this episode, we're getting into:
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Why getting what you want doesn't mean you're capable of sustaining it.
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The difference between manipulation and activation in business, sales, and relationships.
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How ego shows up through control, avoidance, people-pleasing, and protecting your position.
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Why you can attract the dream client, partner, or opportunity and still sabotage it.
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The 2027 Human Design shift and what the era of individuality could mean for leadership.
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Why authenticity, reciprocity, and genuine connection matter more than ever.
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The uncomfortable truth about achieving everything you thought you wanted and still feeling empty.
You cannot preach personal power through a lens that only recognizes your own.
This isn't about making anyone a villain. It's about becoming self-aware enough to recognize where our own patterns, conditioning, and egos are getting in the way of the lives we're trying to create.
Because everyone wants to be a diamond. Only 1% can take the pressure. The greatest pressure isn't what it takes to become successful. It's what it takes to evolve beyond the person you had to become to get there. You always get what you want. But at what cost?
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